Long car trips with children often seem daunting, especially during the holiday season when flying may not be an option. Mary-Rose McLaren, a professor specialising in early childhood education at Victoria University, offers practical advice for turning the journey into a creative and memorable experience—without relying on screens.
While screens might provide temporary relief during long drives, McLaren notes they can lead to behaviour problems, such as tantrums or fractiousness, when devices are taken away. Research shows excessive screen time disconnects children from their surroundings and creates difficulties in transitioning back to real-world interactions. For a smoother holiday, McLaren suggests reserving screens for other occasions.
Children experience the world through movement and sensory exploration, which is severely limited in the confined environment of a car. The rapid movement of scenery outside the windows adds to their discomfort, making preparation and adaptability key to a successful trip.
Encouraging creativity
McLaren emphasises children’s natural creativity and suggests harnessing it through interactive activities. Families can make music together using claps, taps, or even “serve and return” singing games. Older children might enjoy preparing a musical performance for their parents.
Art and storytelling also provide engaging outlets. Drawing materials allow children to sketch what they imagine, such as maps or landscapes from the trip. Creating plays from the perspective of animals or other roadside observations encourages imaginative thinking.
Interactive and classic games
Old-fashioned travel games like “Spot It” keep children engaged with their surroundings. Parents can prepare a grid of images—such as kangaroos, tractors, or orange cars—for kids to check off as they spot them. Older children might enjoy number plate challenges, inventing silly phrases or solving math puzzles based on the letters and numbers.
Making the journey meaningful
McLaren recommends using the car as a space for meaningful conversations. Long drives can provide opportunities for parents to discuss important or reflective topics with their children, such as family values or life aspirations, in a relaxed, non-confrontational setting.
Managing expectations
While thoughtful preparation helps, McLaren reminds parents that long car trips are inherently challenging. “Embrace the mess and the inevitable moments of grumpiness,” she noted. These shared experiences, however chaotic, can foster closer family bonds and create lasting memories.