How to best engage the parent community

How to best engage the parent community

Communication is a big part of effective school leadership – especially when you’re trying to implement major changes to the system. 

As the school community is made up of multiple parties, including the faculty, parents and students, finding the right balance of the ‘what, when and how’ to communicate your ideas can get tricky.

Singapore American School’s superintendent Chip Kimball shares with The Educator Asia how he constantly aims to strike a balance, particularly with handling the parent community.

“Sometimes leadership runs into this dilemma: if you have an idea you’re trying to implement, how soon do you introduce it, knowing that if you do it too soon, you might get a response that is reactionary because your idea isn’t completely mature yet,” Kimball said.

“But if you wait too long, parents will think that you don’t want their opinion because it’s already a done deal – so there’s that tricky balance.”

What he’s learned in his years of experience is that sometimes it’s better to engage your community earlier in the process, rather than later. 

Often, a program’s success is not about delivering a perfect idea; the community’s involvement in the early stages can even help you form a better program.

“Sometimes in education we wait too long because we want things to be perfect, but I think that often what parents want is not the ability to drive the solution. 

“They just want to know that they’ve had the opportunity to give input and be heard.”

The impact of good feedback

Parents’ feedback can also help the school form and deliver a more cohesive message, he added. When they bring up critical questions or concerns, it helps the school understand what needs to be clarified.

Kimball shared how parents’ feedback had a crucial impact recently on a planned system change – amendments to graduation requirements for SAS’s high school students and advanced placement program.

Parents shared strong feedback about its impact on students who were currently in the system. The school thus delayed the rollout of the changes to reduce the program’s impact.

“That was a heated, controversial scenario and the outcome ended being the best for our students,” he said. “Sometimes it’s not necessarily about changing a program but handling the timing or rollout.”

Engaging the entire community
 
When getting feedback from parents, schools may also run into another dilemma – deciding whether the voices heard are representative of the entire community or just “a few loud voices”.
 
Ensuring that what you hear is actionable and a pervasive view worth addressing is a difficult task for school leaders, Kimball shared.
 
“I constantly ask my team, ‘is the issue pervasive and how do we know that?’”
 
Besides getting feedback from the team, who share anecdotal evidence from their personal interactions with parents, SAS has also implemented electronic surveys and thought exchange platforms to engage the larger community.
 
The school then compares information retrieved from the various sources to determine what to do next.
 
“The work of leadership is about discerning the balance between whether an issue is pervasive or not,” he said.
 
“And we never want to ignore a pervasive view from our customers, which is our students and parents, about things that are going wrong.”
 
Constant interaction for constant changes
 
Attaining feedback from your entire school community is thus the best way to help you deliver the best results.
 
This is why Kimball believes it’s best to constantly interact with your audience – face to face being the most effective – and be committed to improve as best you can. This is especially because “every situation is different” in education.
 
“Remember that your student and parent population is constantly changing. Even if they stay with your school, their needs will change as their children get older.
 
“Our commitment is that we aren’t perfect but we would learn from [situations] every time.
 
“You learn what you can but it’s not a model for what you’re going to do next time because circumstances are going to be different.”

 

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